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Buster Benson

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Lazy LJ: social winter gym attendance game
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I wish there was a social game that involved going to the gym during the dark winter evenings. I know [info]joshc thinks the Gym Rat badge on foursquare is the lamest thing in the world, even beating Love, Actually and 20 questions games where the answer is a spontaneously invented object, but so far that's about as close to social winter gym attendance game as it gets.

Ideas?

16 years ago
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Cross-posted on Zero to baby:

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My father passed away from complications from lung cancer 16 years and 2 days ago. Here he is...

My dad

One year, five months, and one day from now will be the point in my life where I have been without him as long as I was with him. In my literary mind, it makes sense to me that I’ll be at the very beginning of my own fatherhood at that point.

He was a great father. I miss him.

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And, over here...

Every year, on the anniversary of my father's death, I usually go back and read all the things I've written about him in the past, and soak up the feeling of missing, of sadness, of the temporary nature of life, etc. At one point I wrote a long essay on my father, but I don't know where that essay is anymore. Probably on one of those floppy disks in storage... hmm... seems strangely appropriate to the topic. There are also several posts from the last few years (and an Amazon occasion reminder).

It's always weird going back and reading old writing. Now that I've got posts going 10 years back (here's the oldest one I have, from October 3rd, 1999) (the ones from 1998 got deleted when I got kicked off diaryland). Of course, all the links are broken, and the site that the posts were originally on is also broken. I've just been archiving each site since 1999, and am curious how long it'll be before it all gets neglected or lost or deleted accidentally.

All is vain, my pinwheel's name. Nothing is new under the sun. From dust to dust, etc.

And on the flipside, enjoy the sun, sweep the dust, appreciate the moments.

State of the Buster address
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Sometimes I gotta brain dump just to clear things out a little )


Clues about the thing we weren't talking about until now
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Looking for a bigger house:



Non-alcoholic beer:



Boobs:



Feeling woozy at various place:



Puking:



"Talking about the thing I'm not talking about"



"Trying to figure out what to do about the fact that all I want to do is nest."

Yup, it's no big secret if you're paying attention to the random occasional titles of your friends' flickr photos and comments for the last 8 or so weeks.  :)  For those who figured out that Kellianne is indeed pregnant again (YAY!), thank you for letting us keep the story out of the official narrative of our lives until we felt safe enough to make it public.  Luckily, that day was yesterday, as yesterday was Kellianne's official first day of the 2nd trimester of her pregnancy and chances of things going smoothly are apparently magically altered in our favor.  Bad things can still happen, but bad things can always still happen, it's just that now the bad things would be as likely to happen as all other bad things are likely, and therefore we can't live our lives in a constant state of worry. 

We have of course been thinking about what all of this means to us and our future, and in my case I like to compensate for the unknown by reading lots of books and researching a lot of random, conflicting, statistics on the internet.  We've taken on pseudonyms and have started a maybe too verbose report of our spring into parenthood here:

Zero to baby (rss feed) (livejournal syndicated feed so entries show up on your LJ friends page)

Of course, this may all be of no interest to those who are not thinking about and/or procreating anytime in the near future, and I apologize in advance for putting a picture of a baby up as my profile picture on Facebook, diluting my LJ, Flickr, and Twitter streams with random nonsense about the brain development of little humans, pseudo-science, and controversial parenting techniques, and generally falling off the social wagon for a while.  You have been warned and might as well unfriend me now if this unnerves you.  Cause I'm totally into this new chapter of adventure, and it's gonna be awesome.

Help us raise money for highschool kids...
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We're trying to raise some money to give to [info]tarvie's high school class for field trips to colleges, pay college application fees (even the reduced fees are too much for them), and pay SAT tutors, among other college-preppy things.

About 8 of us are running together and will be doing a bunch of ridiculous things during the 13.1 mile half-marathon in 24 days.  It's gonna be lots of fun and if you could support us by donating $5/$10/$100/your kidney to rally us, that would be awesome!

Rendezvous is one of our official sponsors so far, and someone will be wearing an animal costume.

Learn more and donate here!
http://krunkingnumbkits.com

At least watch the video, that's pretty funny.


Taking navel-gazing to the next level
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I've written 513 entries mentioning love over the last 10 years:



Only 78 entries about hate:



Talking about foxes spiked at about 10 mentions a month in late 2005:



343 posts about McLeod Residence had a good run, but are now trailing off:



Looks like I've been talking more and more about being drunk over the last couple years:



Could be because of my growing appreciation of champagne:



Here's when I met Kellianne:



I'm an early adopter of Flickr:



And Twitter:



And the iPhone:



But my paranoia of asteroids and super volcanoes seems to have passed for the most part:



Adding a Lucene search engine to all 12,388 entries from the last 10 years is pretty interesting. Mixing the data with Google's chart API makes it even more interesting (to me at least). Now I just have to create more content for it to eat up.

Suggest other ways to mess with all of this.

just cause it's saved doesn't mean it has value
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I've been archiving my Internet activity on my own server for a while now. I think I was one of the first blogs that aggregated data from all over the internet into one spot, but now it's all over the place. Today, the server that was collecting and storing all this information seemed to have disappeared due to a forgotten username, password, and a long expired credit card. Through some magic, I got it back, but I think I'm gonna take the sign as a reason to move it all to a bigger better happier server that will be up more often than not.

In the process, I've moved the database and cron script with all of my entries from the last almost 10 years (1st entry is from December 3rd, 1999). I lost my first year of activity from Diaryland because I got kicked off and it was all deleted. But, in hindsight, I think that's okay. Cause my early activity on the Internet was pretty angry and mean.

In any case, here's a breakdown of everything I've got saved so far:
+-----------------------------+-------+
| title                       | count |
+-----------------------------+-------+
| Flickr                      |  3809 | 
| Twitter                     |  1312 | 
| People Who've Found Me      |  1304 | 
| Typepad                     |  1288 | 
| Flickr Faves                |   576 | 
| 43 Things                   |   575 | 
| Live Journal                |   494 | 
| 43 Places                   |   426 | 
| All Consuming               |   372 | 
| Dodgeball                   |   314 | 
| The Robot Co-op             |   234 | 
| Del.icio.us                 |   195 | 
| Netflix                     |   183 | 
| Morale-O-Meter              |   167 | 
| Brightkite                  |   148 | 
| 43 People                   |   116 | 
| McLeod Residence Blog       |   115 | 
| Mutual Improvement          |    91 | 
| Upcoming                    |    67 | 
| Enjoymentland               |    65 | 
| Vox                         |    55 | 
| Should Do This              |    53 | 
| Vimeo Likes                 |    52 | 
| Tada List                   |    40 | 
| Facebook                    |    38 | 
| Space Tag                   |    34 | 
| Lists of Bests (incomplete) |    33 | 
| Vimeo                       |    21 | 
| Tumblr                      |    21 | 
| Good Ideas                  |    20 | 
| Odeo                        |    20 | 
| Tumblr                      |    15 | 
| Lists of Bests (complete)   |    15 | 
| One Offs                    |    15 | 
| Seattle Public Library      |    11 | 
| 30 Boxes                    |     8 | 
| Yahoo Answers               |     7 | 
| Yelp                        |     6 | 
| iLike                       |     5 | 
| Myspace                     |     1 | 
+-----------------------------+-------+
Now I gotta think about what I want to do with all this information.  People don't even really read this stuff anymore.  A lot of it is so old that there's no reason to really keep it around.  What should I do?  What's the future of all of our digitally stored ramblings?

Whatever the fate of my own crap, it's gonna go here:
http://busterbenson.com


Kellianne sneaks up on parsley dude
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Katie's Visit, Part 1 - 62
Originally uploaded by Buster McLeod

I think this is my favorite picture of the night. Possibly ever.

Rest of the pictures here:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/erikbenson/sets/72157616650328157/detail/


Featured on the iTunes App Store homepage!
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Featured on the iTunes App Store homepage!
Originally uploaded by Buster McLeod

I just happened to see this when I went to the app store today... I knew they were considering something like this but they never confirmed that it was actually happening. I'm totally stoked!


My goals right now...
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My nebulous confused what do I do now phase is slowly spinning into something of a plan. Mostly in the form that all of this began a few years ago... a maintained list of goals that I try to make progress on while continuing to revisit to make sure that each of the goals is something I still want to do. This process is pretty much the only process that really seems to work for me.

My current list of goals is:

  • Have a baby
  • Start a fruit and vegetable garden
  • Run a half-marathon for charity
  • Make a top 100 iPhone app
  • Write a Facebook app
  • Build a better photobooth
  • Go camping this summer
  • Do the "Eat Local Challenge" for 30 days
  • Get out of credit card debt
  • Do 100 pushups
  • Write a manifesto
  • Organize an exciting activity this summer for my friends
I guess that's all I've got right now.  I don't like being sick.  One down one down.  And so I wait until the morale market recovers a bit so I can get to work on these things.

What are your goals right now?


First run of the year...
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I guess I'm running again. Even though I'm sick and coughing up a storm now, it felt great to get real air in my lungs. Myrtle Edwards Park is so beautiful today.



Our running team for the June 27th half-marathon is building. If you want to be a part of it, and don't mind being part of a crazy team that is both going to take it seriously AND be completely ridiculous with costumes, challenges, and cheers, then you know where to look.

Calling bullshit on the 4 noble truths
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I've been wanting to get this off my chest for a long time. 

The 4 Noble Truths of Buddhism are bullshit:
http://enjoymentland.com/2009/03/15/my-honest-take-on-the-4-noble-truths/

Life is not suffering.  Life is not joy.  Life is just life, and the 4 noble truths are just melodramatic whining.

I guess I'm in a weird mood today when I feel like picking on Buddhism.

Update: And why not, a quick response to the Ten Commandments for good measure:
http://enjoymentland.com/2009/03/15/my-quick-take-on-the-ten-commandments/


calm
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Now that the storm is over, there's an interesting calm. I can feel it, even though I still feel crazy in the head. But it's slowly spreading its feathery wings over me.

not sure what I'm trying to say here... )

it's true
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Haiku2 for bustermcleod
projects a little
host healthy potluck since we
had a sweet moment
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Created by Grahame

rock and roll half-marathon
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Chris Jones, Sean Lowry, Brandon Madsen, Megan Welling, Paco, and possibly Tara the bartender at Rob Roy have all committed to running this Rock & Roll half-marathon on June 27th.

Rock & Roll Seattle: A Running Nirvana (yes, that's really the name)

The thought is to get sponsors from local bars, and we can raise money for kids who can't drink or something, and we'd do shots at miles 4, 8, and 13.1 (though some plan on doing the old shot to the side that looks real for the camera), and generally have some fun doing something that our heavy-drinking demographic generally doesn't do (i.e. run half marathons).

I think we could raise a lot of money for some cause, but what should the cause be?  And who else wants to run with us, help supply shots at mile markers, build the website, celebrate at the finish line, etc?

Weekly Review VIII Feb 23rd - Mar 1st
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  • Weight: 160.2 (up a couple pounds)
  • Morale: 8 (down one)
  • Stress: 8 (same as last week)
  • Go to yoga at least twice: Yup, went Tuesday and Thursday
  • Do 100 Pushup Challenge: Nope... maybe I should remove this... my wrist is not liking pushups these days
  • Add to Friendsheet: Nope
  • Work on Friendlington: Nope
  • Stick to financial budget: Yeah, more or less.
  • Participate in a healthy potluck: I'm counting my cooking class as a healthy potluck, since we had 6 groups of 2 making different dishes which we all shared at the end.
  • Read: Reading a lot about pregnancy
  • Change name: We were going to do this on Friday, but then got too busy... we'll try again after Florida
  • Stay off Internet: Nope... way too much Internet, don't know what to do about that
  • Work on McLeod: Yeah, negotiations continued
  • Write daily on Enjoymentland: I actually lost some momentum this week.  Tried to work on Locavore detail page but had trouble finding the right words
  • Work on Locavore: Yup, got more integration with Get Satisfaction, removed a couple unstable features, resubmitted to app store
  • Zero hangovers: Had one yesterday after Kindra's wedding
  • Cook a new meal: Cooked a broccoli orecchiette for Kellianne, and a clam chowder at the cooking class
  • Do meaningful work: Yeah, Locavore is my new life calling.
  • Work on wedding album: I started, but stalled when the software slowed to a crawl

Weekly Review VII Feb 16th-22nd
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  • Weight: 157.8 (down about 2 lbs from last week)
  • Morale: 9 (same as last week)
  • Stress: 8 (same as last week)
  • Go to yoga at least twice: Nope, just once
  • Do 100 Pushup Challenge: Nope
  • Add to Friendsheet: Nope
  • Work on Friendlington: Nope
  • Stick to financial budget: Yeah
  • Participate in a healthy potluck: Nope
  • Read: Yeah, started a couple new books of interest
  • Change name: Nope... gotta do this!
  • Stay off Internet: Nope
  • Work on McLeod: Yep
  • Write on Enjoymentland: Yep
  • Work on Currently In Season: Yep, once again, this work nearly consumed me this week.  I ended up submitting it to the App Store last Friday, and then updating it again last night.
  • Zero hangovers: Actually, I think I did survive the week without any hangovers.
  • Cook a new meal: Yep, made a Chicken Farfalle recipe I found on Epicurious
  • Do meaningful work: Yeah, I am feeling very productive, and learning a lot about a couple different topics
  • Make wedding album: Nope... just added this this week, cause I gotta get on it

Weekly Review part 6
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7 pts.  Didn't do so great last week on my scores.  But I got a lot of work done on my Locavore app (that's the new name for it), and hope to be submitting it this week to the store.

  • Weight: 160.2 (up .2 from last week)
  • Morale: 9 (up 1 last week)
  • Stress: 8 (same last last couple weeks)
  • Go to yoga at least twice: Only once
  • Do 100 Pushup Challenge: Yup
  • Add to Friendsheet: Nope
  • Work on Friendlington: Nope (though Kindra and I talked about working on it... does that count?)
  • Stick to financial budget: Not really (Valentines and all)
  • Participate in a healthy potluck: Not this week
  • Read: Didn't read a lick
  • Frame and hang art: Nope
  • Change name: Nope
  • Stay off Internet: Nope
  • Work on McLeod: Yeah, sorta... simply waiting is working right?
  • Write on Enjoymentland: Yup, and got my first bit of traffic from some friendly people
  • Work on Currently In Season: YES.  This is the reason I got nothing else done this week
  • Zero hangovers: That one after Valentines was totally worth it
  • Cook a new meal: Cooked some Rainbow trout with herbs


potential meme: try to explain something difficult that you're familiar with in simple terms
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In my campaign to get everyone to start more official websites about their passions, professions, and interests, I've had a couple conversations in the last week about how websites work.  I remember when I bought my first domain in 2000 (ianomalous.com) it took me a long time to wrap my head around how websites worked, and since I'm not really that technically talented in my core, I feel like I eventually ended up understanding this only after a lot of effort. 

It's a topic that is never explained in simple terms.  Here's my best attempt at explaining it.

The big picture

All of this works together something like this:
  1. A browser requests a domain (like, say, bustermcleod.com)
  2. The browser checks to see where that domain is hosted (by asking one of repositories of domain information that are saved around the internet).  Those repositories then tell it to check a certain particular computer that's sitting somewhere in the world, always on, always waiting.
  3. That computer sitting somewhere in the world then notices that someone wants a certain page (specified by the URL) and checks its own internal settings to see where on the computer that page lives.  Depending on the settings, that page may have to be interpreted before being served.  For example, if the file is written in Perl, or Java, or Ruby, it will first interpret the code and then return the result in text or HTML format.
  4. Your browser then takes that HTML, CSS, javascript, etc and translates it into the visual elements that you are used to seeing as a web page
That's basically how it works. 

Here are the steps you would need to take in order to buy and host your own website )

Now, if everyone explained one topic that they were familiar with (but that people outside of their area of expertise didn't really ever bother trying to fully understand) we'd all reach our quota to learn something new every day pretty easily!

Enjoymentland's first fumbling week
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New blog: Enjoymentland

I'm moving most posts that aren't explicitly about my life, friends, etc to enjoymentland.com. It's interesting how the mere act of creating a space for learning and studying things I'm interested in has increased my actual commitment to the topics of interest. See the links in the sidebar to see where I'm getting inspiration from.

I changed the design because the lovely yellow and black Neutica theme that I was using was just a little too impractical. I always go back to the simple designs in the end.

It's interesting to me to try to earn new readers and subscribers to something again. The internet world changes so much, and so quickly, and ways of gaining readers a year ago may not work this time around. But, in the end, I'm doing this for myself so I don't really mind writing into a void as much as I probably did a few years ago. As long as the void is my void.

In case you're at all interested, here are a few of the posts I wrote last week:

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